Quiet Hands, Loud Impact

My freshman season at Wesleyan was both challenging and rewarding, and it was a privilege to be part of a team that made history. As a bullpen catcher, finding myself working behind the scenes warming up pitchers instead of on the main stage of the game, I embraced a support role while continuing to develop my skills and contribute wherever I could.

Our team set a new program record with 29 wins and opened the season with 10 straight victories, marking the best start in Wesleyan softball history. One of the most meaningful team accomplishments was winning the Little Three title against Williams and Amherst, a long-standing rivalry that carries a lot of pride.

Early in the season, I had a memorable first at-bat where, hitting left-handed as a switch hitter, I drove an RBI single over the second baseman’s glove—a moment that reflected the preparation and trust I had built with my teammates and coaches. What set this team apart was its collective drive and competitive mindset. Every player brought a strong work ethic and a commitment to pushing one another to be better.

We celebrated the record-breaking 25th win with a simple team photo at Coast Guard, but it represented something much bigger: a shift in the program and a shared belief in what we were building. I learned that success comes in many forms and that making the most of your role, whether on the field or behind the scenes, matters.

This season taught me that when you invest in the people around you and stay ready, your impact will be felt. Being part of this team during such a historic year was an experience that shaped me as both a player and a teammate.

Breaking Barriers

 I grew up in Dallas, Texas, in a family where college wasn’t part of the picture. My grandparents never had the chance to go to school, my dad had to leave high school to help support his family, and my mom immigrated from Mexico in middle school and finished with a high school degree. Still, my parents always pushed us to work hard and stay focused.
They used to say, “the harder you work, the luckier you are,” and warned us never to get comfortable with complacency. That mindset stuck with me. My brother and sister were the first to go to college, and I followed, eventually leaving Texas to attend a competitive school and play collegiate softball.
I’m studying biology with the goal of working in nuclear energy because I care deeply about sustainability and the future of our planet. It hasn’t always been easy. I had to figure a lot out on my own without a parental figure to guide me by proofreading an essay or explaining the do’s and don’ts of college applications, but that journey taught me how much strength can come from self-determination.
Today, my siblings and I have become examples for our younger cousins and proof that the cycle can be broken. We’ve made education part of our family’s story and are building a future where hard work and high standards are just the baseline.

Shaping Confidence: From Clay to Conversation

Taking Product Design I was one of the most transformative experiences I’ve had in developing my confidence with public speaking and critiques. The course focused on exploring the design process through clay sculptures, hand drafting, and digital renditions of our work.

Much of the class was team-based, and every week we presented our progress and ideas to one another, staying in the same groups and building strong bonds rooted in shared challenges. One project that stood out to me involved creating a clay model and then translating it into a digital draft to compare precision, proportion, and interpretation.

This process helped me better understand how ideas can evolve as they move between mediums and how to explain those shifts clearly to others. Our professor was patient and open, encouraging us to speak freely about our creative process rather than memorizing scripted explanations.

At first, my presentations felt sterile and overly planned. I worried I didn’t have enough to say or that my thoughts wouldn’t make sense. Over time, I learned that effective public speaking in design isn’t about perfection but about expressing my reasoning and perspective confidently, even if not everyone interprets it the same way.

During critiques, classmates shared what they liked and what could be improved, which taught me that feedback is always subjective—what one person dislikes, another might see as unique. Discussions often flowed naturally, with one person’s ideas sparking another’s, creating a collaborative rhythm that made speaking feel less intimidating.

By the end of the course, I felt comfortable presenting my work with authenticity and personality. More importantly, I learned that communication in design is not just about describing what something is, but about conveying why it matters.

Making My Own Space

Moving from Dallas, Texas to Wesleyan University was both exciting and unsettling. It was my first time being so far from home, and I was eager to start fresh, but finding out I had been assigned to a random triple instead of the double I requested left me annoyed and nervous. I imagined it would be chaotic sharing such a small space with two strangers.

Over time, though, that situation turned out to be one of the best parts of my freshman year. One of my roommates, a volleyball player who was also in STEM, understood the busy balance of classes and athletics. The other, a writing major with a laid-back personality, brought a creative and easygoing energy to the room.

We didn’t always spend time together outside of our dorm, but we formed a close bond through everyday moments—getting ready before going out, late-night talks about whatever was on our minds, and looking after each other when someone wasn’t feeling well. Each relationship developed naturally, and the three of us found a rhythm that worked.

What started as something I didn’t want ended up teaching me a lot about flexibility and trust. Leaving Dallas had felt disorienting, but learning to adapt in that shared space helped me find comfort in uncertainty. Now, when I face unexpected or uncomfortable situations, I’m more open to them, knowing they can lead to experiences and connections I never would have planned for.

Change at Any Age

Ever since I picked up my first bat and glove, I never really had my roots set deep in one position in softball. I started off at first base, but as I got older and my height stopped keeping up, I shifted to second base, which highlighted my agility and grit. For a while, I loved it, but that connection eventually faded.

After bouncing around, I landed on catching, and after a lot of trial and error, I finally found something that worked for me. With every position change came the need to stay adaptable and coachable. When I came to Wesleyan University, I thought I had already found my style of catching, but the second I touched collegiate dirt, my coaches made me realize there were still changes to be made.

At that point, I had been about five years removed from learning the position, but I took their feedback in stride and pushed through the discomfort of learning something new. I commend myself for keeping a humble mindset in a sport I’ve spent so many years mastering, knowing that even if something works, there’s always room to improve.

Catching with one knee down and keeping my glove low might seem like a small technical adjustment, but to me, it represents something bigger: adaptability, humility, and the determination to restart and grow, no matter how many times it takes. It’s a reflection of how I’ve approached every change in my softball journey with open-mindedness, persistence, and a willingness to evolve both as a player and as a person.

Stalling, Starting, Growing

Starting college felt a lot like learning to navigate the 1978 Corvette I bought at sixteen, a car my dad and I loved for its curves and character but also one that tested me with constant stalls and unpredictable breakdowns. When I arrived on campus, balancing labs, practices, and the heavy rhythm of freshman life often felt like trying to coax that engine to stay alive at a stoplight, hoping it would not cut out the moment I needed it to move. I had days where I felt frozen between responsibilities, moments when the pressure of being so far from home and keeping up with academics and softball made me feel like I was stalling out before I even had a chance to accelerate.

But growing up working through the quirks of that Corvette shaped the way I handled these challenges. I had spent years dealing with a car that would fail if the temperature leaned even slightly in the wrong direction, one whose distributor and carburetor forced me to be patient and persistent. Every time I managed to start it again, or make it through a drive without it dying in traffic, I learned that progress comes in small, meaningful wins.

That same mindset carried into my college experience, where each good grade, strong practice, or moment of personal clarity felt like the familiar click of the ignition finally catching. My dad had always taught me to appreciate things that were beautiful even when they were impractical, to value what requires care and understanding, and that perspective helped me embrace the messier parts of transitioning into independence.

The resilience I built from that car became the foundation for how I navigate college now, reminding me that setbacks are part of the process and that the most rewarding experiences often come from what you choose to keep working on, even when it would be easier to walk away.

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